The inward perception

- Rewritten after I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord & Savior.

Of course the qualities in a good dominant person are many and varied and in reality the qualities are really attributed to the PERSON – by that i mean that a particular man or woman is a good dominant because they possesses qualities that are the essence of a good and pure in Christ.

A good person has qualities such as kindness and consideration, empathy and sympathy, politeness and respect of others, integrity, honesty and ethics, and probably many more that could be added to this list. It is those qualities which give a person the character, personality and skills to be good at anything he/she does, whether it be a career, family, or dominance or submission for that matter.

I think it is important to have communication in a relationship from the very start in both being able to feel as though you can express yourself to the other person but in listening too. 

A good person is respectful of others, and is not too proud to ask for advice or help if it is needed. A good person is the one whose name comes up in conversation time and time again, 

They treats everyone with respect and kindness, but does not suffer fools and is not afraid to speak his/her mind and tell someone off should it be necessary. He/She also tries to be non-political, as far as is possible, not entering into arguments or disagreements, but instead is more likely to act as a pacifier and an arbitrator in an effort to diffuse the situation rather than inflame it. When he/she sees an issue, he is not afraid to work on fixing it.

So in conclusion, I can say that in my opinion, a good person is the one who is looked up to by his/her peers, is Christ-centered and sought out by individuals alike, for friendship, and advice. He/She is patient, realistic, consistent, has discretion, promotes open communication, takes the time to understand and is safe, sane and consensual. He/She is well respected and well liked due to his/her nature and personality, and gives much of himself to others. And he/she doesn’t have to blow his own trumpet!